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    Decide to Become a More Interesting Person

    Saturday, February 21st, 2009

    If all you do is work, hang out at your friend’s houses, watch movies and surf the internet, then you’ll struggle to spark & maintain the interest of beautiful women who are interested in lifestyle and adventure.  My recommendations for becoming a more interesting person:
    Be real: Start using your real opinion in conversations and interactions, [...]

    Behave Attractively and Women Will Pay You More Attention

    Saturday, February 21st, 2009

    It’s true that what you say reveals a ton about your personality, but you may have heard that how you say it is more important.  But what the hell does that mean?  To say something in an attractive way, you should also be displaying or using some (if not all, depending on the situation) of [...]

    Learn to Express Some Emotion

    Monday, February 16th, 2009

    A lot of the guys are amazed at how interesting they become as soon as they learn to express some genuine emotion.  For example:  I was recently eating dinner on a Saturday night with a friend, chatting about the progress he made the night before and getting him revved up to hit the town with [...]

    Remember to Vary Your Energy & Conversational Style

    Sunday, February 15th, 2009

    If we were to break conversational styles into two types, one being Fun, Flirty & Emotional and the other being Logical, Formal & Normal, then this is how you should use them:
    House parties, functions, on a date with a woman.

    50% Fun Flirty & Emotional
    50% Logical, Formal & Normal

    Bars, clubs and other high-stimulus environments.

    80% Fun Flirty [...]

    Realize That Attraction & Interest Are Two Different Things

    Saturday, February 14th, 2009

    You can attract pretty much any woman on this planet by using what you are learning from me.  However, no matter what you do – your personality, approach to life and the things that you want to talk about – won’t be of interest to all women.  So don’t get upset if a woman isn’t [...]

    Understand That Compatibility is a Factor

    Friday, February 13th, 2009

    A lot of guys get frustrated when learning this sort of stuff, because it often requires a bit of time and effort before you start receiving the big rewards (i.e. sex and relationships).
    I can empathize because me and a heap of my friends spent about 400 hours on phone calls over the course of a [...]

    Understand That You Don’t Have to do Everything ‘Right’ to Succeed

    Thursday, February 12th, 2009

    Let me just get this straight for you:
    You don’t have to be Mr. Perfect in all areas that women are attracted to, in order to succeed with women & dating.
    Here’s the deal…
    As you read through all the materials you received from me, you may begin to think, “Whoa…do I have to do all this stuff [...]

    Learn to Reveal Your Intentions in the Right Way

    Tuesday, February 10th, 2009

    If you want to get sex, then don’t be a sneak about it.
    It’s true that most women are put off by direct, sleazy conversation. However, it’s also true that pretty much all women crave to be engaged in flirtatious conversations, when the time is right. So, here’s a little bit of must-know information for you.
    As [...]

    Realize That Women Are Not Looking For ‘Magical Opening Lines’

    Sunday, February 8th, 2009

    It’s true that most men don’t have a clue when it comes to approaching women and starting conversations. Women have heard all the usual ‘pick up lines’…but guess what? It doesn’t matter. Nothing matters when you are behaving attractively.
    These days, I literally walk up to women and say things like:

    Hey, what’s happenin’?
    Howdy, I’m Dan [...]

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