Tips on Avoiding Breakups
Maintaining a relationship is not an easy task. It is very difficult considering that two individuals are involved and that each individual has his own preference, principles, priorities, goals, and much more. Certainly, anyone who is in love is afraid when the time comes when the other gets tired of things. Millions of articles have already been written on how to avoid breakups in relationships. For sure, there are endless advices out there since there are also endless situation.
First off, the most essential thing is communication. Things should be communicated to the other partner so each one is on the same page. One cannot just assume or accuse. If someone is hurt by the actions or words of the other person, he must say it in a nice way to the other and explain what cause this emotion. This discussion should not be accusatory. The goal here is to clarify things up, not blow them up.
The other essential thing is to understand. Many people in a relationship do not realize that they are acting selfishly and are only interested in what they can get, not in terms of money or financial matters, but in terms of the interest of one’s well-being or self-esteem. When discussing things, the couple should take time to listen and not just to talk. Sacrifices have to be made when you try to understand the other party. These sacrifices may come in the form of time, effort, and energy. Money is not always the thing that can make a relationship grow.
Third, while on this phase of recovery, it is not entirely wrong to flirt with others just to see if your ex-boyfriend is still interested. Always look nice, smell good, and in shape. Do not look devastated. Show what you got and flaunt it.
On my last relationship i think i was selfish, i was always demanding for time
Comment by pinayplaymate on July 28, 2009