Behave Attractively and Women Will Pay You More Attention
It’s true that what you say reveals a ton about your personality, but you may have heard that how you say it is more important. But what the hell does that mean? To say something in an attractive way, you should also be displaying or using some (if not all, depending on the situation) of the following:
- Confidence.
- Masculinity.
Note: I am referring to masculine behavior and psychology here (e.g. not complaining or whining about how you think life is so tough,)
- Flirting body language.
- Humor.
- Playful (not girly!) attitude.
Only when you have a handle including those things, will your conversation be of any real value to a woman in terms of attraction. For example: Imagine a nervous ‘nice guy’ who tends to use ‘safe humor’ and avoid flirting with women (low-status behavior). Now imagine a confident, masculine guy who uses risqué humor (e.g. David Letterman style humor) and who enjoys flirting with women. Next, imagine that the two guys are standing next to each other in an interaction with a group of three women. Whose conversation will the women be more inclined to listen to and pay attention to? That’s right. The nice guy’s politically correct approach to life is probably going to mean ‘boredom’ for all involved.…and people don’t want you to bore them – especially in social environments where people want to be seen to be having a good time.
Your conversation and what you speak about is a direct indicator of your social status, values, confidence, popularity, approach to life and a ton of other things. Get good at making conversation by following all the advice I’ve given you in The Flow.
Awesome, very amazing topic. I’m goin to blog about it also!
Comment by ByncUnlinee on December 11, 2009