Remember to Vary Your Energy & Conversational Style
If we were to break conversational styles into two types, one being Fun, Flirty & Emotional and the other being Logical, Formal & Normal, then this is how you should use them:
House parties, functions, on a date with a woman.
- 50% Fun Flirty & Emotional
- 50% Logical, Formal & Normal
Bars, clubs and other high-stimulus environments.
- 80% Fun Flirty & Emotional
- 20% Logical, Formal & Normal
Bookstores, supermarkets and other low-key environments.
- 20% Fun Flirty & Emotional
- 80% Logical, Formal & Normal
You know how long that took me to work out? Three whole years and thousands of interactions! Now, you’ve just learnt it in 1 minute. Funny stuff! If only you could have seen how many times I tried to talk Logical, Formal & Normal to girls in bars and have them say, “Umm, I have to go to the bathroom” (and never return) you’d be having a right old laugh at me now.
I’d be sitting there waiting for the woman to return …. Waiting …. Waiting …………..Doh!
