Realize That Attraction & Interest Are Two Different Things
You can attract pretty much any woman on this planet by using what you are learning from me. However, no matter what you do – your personality, approach to life and the things that you want to talk about – won’t be of interest to all women. So don’t get upset if a woman isn’t interested in you. If you notice that a woman isn’t into your ‘style of life’ or doesn’t share key values that you feel strongly about, then talk to another woman! Warning: My favorite topics to talk about are nanotechnology, biotechnology, artificial intelligence, transhumanism immortality and metaphysics. After meeting thousands of women in bars, only one or two of them have wanted to talk about those things. So, should you ignore all the women who don’t want to talk about topics that you enjoy? No! Why?
- Different conversational styles are required for certain environments.
- Women are very different to men.
While we men usually like to talk about logical things and work out solutions to problems, women usually prefer to have conversations that inspire emotions. I’m not saying that women aren’t interested in ‘guy things’, it’s just that they usually prefer to talk about ‘girl things’, or about things that inspire strong emotion. So don’t try to force or even encourage a woman into having a conversation about logical things until you’re dating her (first date is fine, see next section for explanation), or have at least had sex with her. It’s okay to talk about logical, information-based topics with women, but here’s a tried and tested rule to run by.
