Understand That Compatibility is a Factor
A lot of guys get frustrated when learning this sort of stuff, because it often requires a bit of time and effort before you start receiving the big rewards (i.e. sex and relationships).
I can empathize because me and a heap of my friends spent about 400 hours on phone calls over the course of a year, trying to work out what the hell was going on when we weren’t getting any action!
For example:
I got to a point where I was:
- Able to approach women with confidence. - Good at flirting.
- Able to make great conversation.
- Using fairly confident body language.
- Wearing stylish, trendy clothes, aftershave and a great haircut. - Doing well in my management career.…but my friends and I were still finding it hard to maintain the interest of all women.
This continued on until I realized that compatibility plays a huge part in the success of interactions and relationships.
For example:
You might start interacting with a beautiful woman and feel a physical
attraction for her, but find that she doesn’t meet your criteria in terms of intelligence and personal values – so your emotional attraction won’t be that strong for her.
Vice versa – You might start interacting with a woman that you think is ideal for you. You might be displaying confidence, making good conversation and using great body language – but she might find that you don’t meet her criteria in terms of masculinity, ‘social coolness’ or personal values.
So, when it comes to working out how to maintain a woman’s interest, here is some must-know advice that will save you from years of frustration and banging your head against a wall.
