Realize That Women Are Not Looking For ‘Magical Opening Lines’
It’s true that most men don’t have a clue when it comes to approaching women and starting conversations. Women have heard all the usual ‘pick up lines’…but guess what? It doesn’t matter. Nothing matters when you are behaving attractively.
These days, I literally walk up to women and say things like:
- Hey, what’s happenin’?
- Howdy, I’m Dan – who the hell are you?
- Hi, I thought I’d come over and be social…I’m Dan, what’s your name?
One of the main reasons that conversation starters like those work for me is that I am able to Assume Rapport and Attraction.
When you assume rapport, is it attractive. Why? Because it shows confidence, social ‘coolness’ and that you have traits of an alpha male who goes after what he wants.
Bookstore example:
“Hey….I love books….this place makes me realize how much I love books…how about you – you like learning stuff, or do you read romance novels all the time?”
Here’s the thing though…
As long as you are behaving attractively, you can even say random, funny or silly things that would be disastrous if said by a guy who wasn’t behaving attractively.
This has been demonstrated in the past with 3 different groups of women:
Group 1: Hi guys, I’m interested in meeting a girl tonight, but I’m not having any luck – do you guys like me?
This got an awesome response, because it was extremely funny coming from a guy who was obviously confident.
Group 2: Hi guys, I don’t know what to say but I just wanted to come over here so I could stand near you. Can you make me feel welcome by buying me a drink, or am I being too forward?
Group 3: Girls hate me…I’m convinced. Guys – take a look at me: Do I look like a guy you would hate or who you could grow to love? Because I’m really starting to think that girls hate me.
Feel free to use those – they all worked.
